All my 3 bridesmaids/close friends have delivered their babies in the recent 3 months and certainly, motherhood talk surrounds them. They are into what milkbottle to use, which stroller to buy, what milk powder they should feed their precious little one, the delivery experience (and traumas)... Of course, the conversations often leave me baffled but well, they say it serves as a launchpad for me so that when it's my turn, i'd have 3 advisors telling me what to do. Afterall, they know i love to listen and learn from experiences :)
I chanced upon my friend's blog record for her baby today. It lists the emotions, journeys, videos and all the thoughts which she had during her pregancy (since Sep09) and the effort she put into carefully recording every emotion. I saw a video where she captured the baby's movement in her tummy and the ultrasound scans that she took whilst at the Gynae.I guess reading words from a once-anti-motherhood advocate, the episode must have been touching. As an outsider and aunty to the kids now, the blog stirred up emotions and convinced me more that "life changes when u have a child". I am really happy for her and the little one. It's really lovely to be able to "write" to your child and keep records of every single detail that surrounded his growth. Imagine being able to read your mother's thoughts and your journey into the world. MAGICAL! Wish my parents were able to do the same and i'd know all my happenings in my growing years.
I never doubted that motherhood is a magical experience but unfortunately, the journey into motherhood requires the support of 2 people and it's taking marriage to the next level. I ain't sure if i am ready for that but for sure, it's a test of love and commitment. My 3 friends keep telling me that they are surprised at the patience their hubbies extend to the little one. I guess nothing beats witnessing the journey of your newborn and appreciating the fact that bringing a child into this world is no easy feat!
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