On this day 1 year ago, we said "i do"

Yes, it's been 365 days without me knowing it. Someone once told me that the 1st yr of marriage is always the toughest - u live together & start getting to know 1 another inside out, tolerate living habits, overdosage of time together on weekends... For me, i have to agree that the 1st year was tough and there were roadbumps, ironically not becoz of living habits but external factors such as work related stress.

I have to agree that there were times in this 1 yr, i had never been more unhappy. KL was unhappy at work & well, that affected me too. Now that he has decided to leave and start afresh elsewhere, i really hope, from the bottom of my heart, that life together will really be happier. We should be moving into our new home in the 4th quarter & i really do look forward to that. Not becoz it's a new "shelter" over my head but for the fact that it's really MY home and also signifies a fresh start for both of us.

On this very day, we thought that we really needed to try out things that we have never done before, even while we were dating. A trip to the zoo & an indulgent meal at Morton's really made the day go fab and left a beautiful memory in my heart. I cross my fingers that going forwards, he'll be happier at work & of course, our marriage will be a happy one too.

As the saying goes "marriage opens up your eyes". I can't agree more but ironically, not "open my eyes" to my partner but really, a marriage is sheer hard work.